Wedding

My fiancee and I got engaged on December 12 and we were supposed to get married before my baby bump started to show. So now I don't know what we are doing. I hate to bring it up to him because I want to let him be a man and make his own designs but at the same time if history is indication, then i can't actually expect him to do on his own.I'll see what happens on our anniversary (July 9th) and our engagement anniversary(December 12th). Basically I want to be surprised. I just want him to show that he put some effort into doing something nice, not just money cuz that doesn't mean anything, and not just run me because being in a serious relationship means your time is already mine. I don't know what i should do because i feel like as the man i don't want to take anything from him. I want him to still have his manhood when we're done. And i don't want to rush him into anything but his words are so confusing. Actions speak louder than words though and his actions aren't saying anything. Idk.